The Sorrow of Asian "Emotionlessness"
When the author was growing up as a secondary school student in the US, a favorite conversation topic among his Asian-American group of friends was the perceived "weirdness" of their respective Asian families. The concrete example of "strange" were mostly bouts of what can be termed social aloofness, with awkward gift-giving during holidays, awkward presence and absence of affection, and even more awkward get-together of friends and families . The comparisons were always with non-Asian families, were social occasions, to the Asian kids, seems always so smoothly conducted.